We all have expectations for the kind of person we hope to be in a relationship with. Good looking, athletic, smart, or maybe even funny. But God is asking us to take our eyes off the things the world sees when it comes to other people (and even ourselves) and instead focus on the things He sees. He’s asking us throw out the things on our lists and replace them with the things on His list—things like purity, honor, truth, and excellence. As you think about the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with (and the kind of person you want to be!), ask God to help you create a list of qualities that He cares about most.