LIVE // You will slowly become more like the people around you. It’s just a fact. So what traits sum up your friends the most? Sarcastic? Rude? Encouraging? Gossipy? Caring? Today, take a long look at the people around you and then ask yourself: Do I really want to be like these people? If you become rude, gossipy, and sarcastic because of the people you hang out with, your dating chances go down. But if you become encouraging and caring because of the people you hang out with, then your dating chances go up. Today, look for wise people around you to walk with and learn from.