LIVE // How can you know if you’ve chosen the right person to date? Look at the fruit in their life. In other words, look at what their live is producing—their actions. A boyfriend or girlfriend can say just the right things at just the right moments, but if you really want to know if you’re dating the right person, look at the fruit they’re producing. Be a private detective: Step back and observe. How does he treat his mom? How does she treat her siblings? What sorts of things is she up to on the weekends? What are his friends like? A good tree—and a good person to date—will bear good fruit in their lives.